"And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men." Luke 2:52
If you have faithfully encouraged your husband, you will no doubt have seen some changes in his life...and your own life, as well. Encouragement is a wonderful habit that we hope you will continue for the rest of your life. The important thing is to keep growing in Christ and obeying the Word of God as you respond to your husband.
As you consider today how to bless your husband and not tear him down, think of ways that you can encourage balance in your home. Jesus led a balanced life. He grew mentally, physically, spiritually, and socially. As you see your husband branching out in these areas, is there a pattern of growth? Is your husband striving for balance in his life? If so, let him know you have noticed, and ask how you can further encourage that balance.
If your husband is out of balance - focusing on one area to the exclusion of the others - consider whether there are things you can do to help restore or create balance in his life. Can you encourage times for sports or exercise? Keep the children quiet for a study time? Invite friends over for dinner? Stimulate his mind? Be sure you are working toward balance in your own life, as well. Be an example!
I must admit that neither of us is particularly good at the balance thing. I tend to get over involved in work or other activities sometimes...I get so busy 'doing' that I don't take time to relax. My hubby on the other hand will sometimes get so wrapped up in watching sports or something similar that he doesn't 'get out' much. I think we could each take a few cues from the other and we'd both be more balanced. I have been trying to take time out for relaxing at home a little more lately...I've actually learned to say no to people trying to convince me to add something to my schedule when I really shouldn't add anything else...so I'm making progress...but I still could use a bit more balance in my life.
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